Reminders

Elder L. Tom Perry said in a conference talk years ago that...

In a world of turmoil and uncertainty, it is more important than ever to make our families the center of our lives and the top of our priorities.  Families lie at the center of our Heavenly Father's plan.  We need to make our homes a place of refuge from the storm, which is increasing in intensity all about us.  Even if the smallest openings are left unattended, negative influences can penetrate the very walls of our homes.

This past week, I witnessed first hand the "negative influences" that Elder Perry speaks of in his talk.  I was in Washington with my sisters and parents, attending the funeral of a dear Uncle, who died suddenly and tragically.  I watched a family unravel during a time of loss.  It was sad, and it was heart breaking, to say the very least.

It's interesting that at times of change, crisis or loss, we are reminded that what matters most is family.  My experience this past weekend was a loud reminder that families are a blessing, and they are to be valued and nurtured.  I was reminded that we can't just place focus on our immediate families either -- that no matter the circumstance, we can make a powerful difference in the lives of even our extended family with constant love, support and encouragement. 

Long ago, the heading on my blog read this...

You don't choose your family.
They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.

You where God's gift to our family, Uncle Dan, and you will be missed dearly.